Have you ever wondered what it takes for us to stop and truly reflect on the lives we’re living? Do we really need to hit rock bottom, face a crisis, or experience deep pain to begin questioning our path? Far too often, it's moments of turmoil that push us to assess who we are and where we’re going.

“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.”

— Steve Jobs

But what if it didn’t have to come to that?

Why wait until the final chapters of your life, when regret might be your only companion, to start pursuing your dreams? Picture a world where each of us lives fearlessly, embracing our potential. What would that reality look like? Perhaps we’d see less pollution, more kindness, less division, more connection. But it all starts with a decision—one that only you can make.

“You were born with wings, why prefer to crawl through life.”

— Rumi

Four Life-Changing Questions to Ask Yourself

Who do you truly want to be?
Stop thinking about who you should be—according to society, family, or even your own long-held beliefs. Instead, ask yourself who you want to be. Who is the truest, most authentic version of yourself when all expectations are stripped away?
What do you really want out of life?
Dive deeper than surface-level desires. What does your soul crave? Is it a sense of belonging, creativity, peace, adventure, or maybe all of the above? Allow yourself to dream freely, without limits.
What are you here to experience?
Life is fleeting, and we often overlook the richness of the moments available to us. What experiences light you up? Think about the relationships, the adventures, and even the quiet, simple pleasures that bring you joy.
What fears are holding you back?
Fear has an uncanny ability to keep us stuck. Whether it's the fear of failure, judgment, or the unknown, identifying your fears is the first step toward overcoming them. Once you name them, you can confront and move past them.

You Are Enough—Right Now

When was the last time you looked at yourself and believed that you were enough, just as you are? Society loves to tell us that we need to be more—achieve more, change more—to be worthy. But the truth is, you already have everything within you to become the best version of yourself. There is no need to wait for permission or validation.

Embrace the Messy Journey of Growth

The path to personal growth is rarely smooth. It’s messy. You’ll encounter failures, setbacks, and moments of doubt along the way. But understand this: those who succeed aren’t the ones who avoid failure—they are the ones who learn from it and keep going. Growth comes from embracing the mess, learning from your mistakes, and trusting that the process is worth it. Remember, each misstep is a stepping stone on the path to your best self.

Don’t Wait for a Crisis to Wake Up

Why do we so often wait until our backs are against the wall—a health scare, the end of a relationship, a job loss—before we make a change? Why do we let fear hold us back, allowing life to slip by until something forces us to act?

But what if we didn’t wait? What if we made the choice today to look hard at our lives and decide that fear no longer gets to be in control? You don’t need a crisis to wake up to your potential. You can choose, right now, to live with intention and courage. Don’t let the fear of failure or judgment keep you from the life you’re meant to live.

Choose to Live Your Life Fully—Today

The life you’re longing for is within reach, but you must choose to go after it. You don’t need a life-altering event to remind you that you are worthy of joy, fulfillment, and purpose. The time to break free from the fears that hold you back is now. Start living a life that energizes and inspires you.

So, what step will you take today to become the truest version of yourself?

With warmth,

Sarah Voiles